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Lose one, gain one.

Monday, May 21st, 2007

I woke up about 10:30 this morning feeling much better than I have in the past week. My cold is close to gone but now I’ve given it back to Baby so he’s not feeling too well :heh:

I didn’t get to sleep until rather late last night, there was a spill in the fridge that required immediate attention. A bottle of chocolate sauce kind of exploded in the back of the fridge and basically everything in there needed to be thrown out. I then spent about an hour scraping all the chocolate off the shelf. Now the fridge looks close to brand new, but it also looks empty. I’d rather it be empty than full of bacteria though. I also made it a point to throw out a lot of food that I’ve been putting off for a while. I need to get the door cleaned off too, that’s starting to build up a little bit of gunk. There’s opened bottles of stuff that no one is ever going to use so there’s no real need for it to be in there anyway.

While I’m no longer dealing with a cold, my stomach doesn’t seem to be agreeing with me very much today either. I don’t know if it’s something I ate yesterday or just a reaction to stress but I’m really nauseous and even crackers aren’t subsiding the feeling. I should probably be laying down right now but there’s a cool breeze coming in from outside that I won’t be able to get in the bedroom. There’s only one big window in there and with the placement of windows across the hall it just wouldn’t do much for a cross breeze.

I’ve got Princess snoring on the left of me and Bella snoring at my feet – at least my toes are warm…heh.

Dying to get there

Monday, May 21st, 2007

I know I’ve been on quite a few mini vacations over the last year but the only places I’ve really gone is casinos and before I moved to Delmarva, I just considered being with the boyfriend a vacation in itself. There’s one place that I’ve always dreamed of going to and I can’t stress it enough but Hawaiian vacations is the only way to go. Beautiful beaches, amazing scenery, gorgeous homes and excellent food – there’s nothing you can’t do in Hawaii. I think each Island is equally gorgeous Maui, Kuai, Lanai, you name it – it’s gorgeous. I’ve been itching to get down to one of these islands for many years. I’ve done many book reports on Hawaii over the years so I’d like to think I know a thing or two about the island that would help me out for my future visit there. I’m just waiting almost too patiently to get there.

Shopping with limited time.

Sunday, May 20th, 2007

I have a few birthday’s coming up that I need to shop for, it’s really got me in a rush to get some money together. A few of them aren’t really that important to me so a few cheap gifts is really as far as they’re going to go. The rest, however, require a little bit of work. Kay’s birthday is the beginning of June, my father’s birthday is towards the end of June and my sister’s is only three days after his. I know in order to get things together for them I’m going to have to save up about $600. I figure $200 each, at most, is pretty reasonable. I tend to go overboard on things so that’s where that price tag came from. I also have to factor in that a few weeks later is my anniversary so I have to look into two gift ideas for men and then even more ideas for the two women. I was thinking of getting Baby one of those cool Digital picture frames like I spoke about a few weeks ago but he doesn’t take as many pictures these days as he used to. I don’t really know what to do.

I came across designergifts.com, it’s a new gift store from onlinestores.com which is a leading online retailer with several other stores. There’s a lot of different kinds of gifts available. Gifts for men, women, children and babies. There are even seasonal items and regular birthday gifts. They’ve got low prices and equally low shipping costs. Any order over $75 is free shipping, which I think is pretty cool. The site’s also pretty easy to navigate around as well.

Now that’s Patriotism!

Sunday, May 20th, 2007

The one thing you can’t escape in Delmarva is American Pride, there are American Flags hanging up on all kinds of Outdoor Flagpoles. They’re attached to houses, smack dab in the middle of the front yard, hanging off the roof – you name the location and I’m sure there’s a flag there. I know that you can basically pick up US Flags anywhere but people around here only go to special places to insure they’re getting a top quality product, I only know this because I’ve asked them about it. A few actually pointed me to united-states-flag.com so you could imagine my surprise when I found out I was to review this site for a sponsor.

I found the site very easy to navigate but I’m noticing some trouble as far as cross-browser compatibility is concerned. It’s also a small bit on the dull-side considering this site was created to bring together patriots from all over America to show off their pride. I expected it to be a bit more complex than just a simple logo and some links. It’s designed in a very easy-to-navigate way so I guess that’s all that matters. They sell everything from US Flags, Flagpoles, Small Flags, Car Flags, State Flags, Pins, Patches and Decals, Patriotic Decoration, Flag Display Cases, Custom Flags and so much more. There’s even a section on Flag Etiquette and Care. I’d say it’s a valuable resource for anyone looking to show off their American Pride.

Waiting … Impatiently

Sunday, May 20th, 2007

So for the entire day there have been some server upgrades going on. Tony has insured me that it will all be taken care of ASAP but the problem I’m having at the moment is my database is telling me that I have new accounts to setup for hosting but there’s no actual email attached to them because of the mail-server upgrades. I can only wait so long before I begin to go nutty. Part of me wondered if it was just Thunderbird acting up and not letting me log in but I went in through webmail and there wasn’t anything in my inbox. Around this time of night after it being 10 hours since email was checked, I’d have a few hundred messages pending for me – most of which is spam but at least I know I GOT something, you know?

I just hope he’s done soon. I have clients to work for and no way to contact them because I can’t access my address books! :ugh:

Dream Manifestation

Sunday, May 20th, 2007

PPPWhy are some people more successful than others in fulfilling their dreams? Isn’t it astonishing how some people fail all the time, while others turn everything they touch into gold? This is a question at the back of anyone’s mind who just can’t get a break in life. Things brings me to a conversation I was having with Baby the other night.

We were talking about successful sites on the internet, primarily about multi-million dollar companies. Take Paypal for example, when they were first starting out they paid someone a fairly decent amount of money just to create their logo. Using basic text with a few styling’s this person earned quite a bit of money. When Paypal was bought by Ebay, this person earned a few million dollars. He then used his knowhow to be one of the co-creators of YouTube, this site was recently bought out by Google for 1.65 BILLION. No matter what this guy does, he’s earning more and more money left and right.

Dream Manifestation WizardThen there are people like us, working stiffs who work our hardest and can’t seem to catch a break in life. Turning things into gold are dreams that don’t seem to ever come true. I then came across the Dream Manifestation Wizard. They claim to have a scientific method that manifests your dreams into reality. Manifesting your dreams does not depend on your education, on your ethnicity or heritage, and in no way is it determined by your environment. It’s only a result of your thinking.

This brings me back to “The Secret” where it’s based on the Law of Attraction don’t think “I’m in debt, I need to get out of debt” wipe the term DEBT from your vocabulary completely. Work hard, don’t think about the money that’s going out, think only about the money coming in and supposedly this will balance your life out.

I think the Dream Manifestation Wizard may help you reach your goals, or at least help you in getting closer to them. The only way to get anywhere in life is if you try. Sitting back and waiting for opportunities to fall in your lap won’t help you out in the long run – people are by no means that lucky. Working hard and thinking positively is really the only way to go, I think.

Slow and Steady

Sunday, May 20th, 2007

I’ve finally started to get everything together. I only have about four more programs to install but I can’t get those done until I can dig the disks out of a box. I still need to get Photoshop on here and I’m unsure of which one I’d like to install anyway. I may wind up sticking to Adobe 7 though, I use that more than CS by default anyway – I can just leave CS on the desktop for now. I do still have to get my fonts worked in but since I don’t have a graphics program installed that’s really not a huge issue at the moment. I use Verdana for everything and since that comes with Windows by default, I think I’m going to be ok for now.

It’s so warm in here it’s unreal, it’s gorgeous outside but there isn’t really much of a breeze. Even with the windows wide open it’s not really making much of a difference. I should get Baby out of the office though, the garbage has to go out tonight and there’s quite a bit of stuff to put out on the curb.

Can’t take the heat.

Sunday, May 20th, 2007

Kay is currently going through her second life-changing process and because of her menopause symptoms we’re all confused dealing with her hot/cold flashes. The AC was on for 10 minutes, then off for five minutes, then back on. At this rate I’m surprised the air conditioner hasn’t blown up because of it’s own personal confusion. I know, air conditioners don’t have brains/feelings but it works that way in my world.

Anyway, she can’t find anything to help her out so I surfed around the internet and came across Menopause A to Z and I have to say, it’s answering a lot of questions that she had. I wonder if I’m having sympathy pains at the moment, I’m getting rather warm myself – it could be the laptop though :: moves to the table :: … Okay now that I’m comfortable again, I can continue.

I spent a bit of time reading this article: What Causes Menopause Hot Flashes. This is obviously the one that’s effecting everyone at the moment so I figured it would be the best one to poke around in. What she was unaware of was that certain foods and drinks can trigger menopause hot flashes; hot coffee or other hot drinks, caffeine and alcohol, all play a roll. She drinks about a pot of coffee a day and probably about 2 liters of soda a day as well. Knowing that you can’t take a comfortable women out of her element – I think this is going to be a very difficult summer. Maybe I’ll buy her this book for her birthday… :hrm:

Busy – Bored – Busy Again

Sunday, May 20th, 2007

The one thing I hate the most about reformatting my computer is the fact that I have to spend countless hours reinstalling everything I need to use on a daily basis. Thankfully everything of importance is already on the external so it’s not like any files were lost. All of my email reads off the external as well, it’s easier to run Thunderbird on two computers considering I really don’t know which computer I’m using until I happen to need to get online for something. Now that my laptop is back up to the speed of where it was when I first got it, however, I think I’ll be on it a little bit more than the desktop anyway.

May-Windows Updates I’m waiting, ever so patiently, for the 78 windows updates to process. These are 78 after the 15 I installed not even an hour ago. I figured this was going to be the most time consuming part of my day, it’s just a pain in the ass. I know that importance of having security updates but what I don’t understand is why there needs to be thousands of files to be updated. Why can’t there be the most recent update that works for all of the previous updates? Don’t mind me, I really just can’t stand waiting for things that I have no control over. But yea, as you can see by the screen shot, there’s quite a bit of a wait left. [edit = another 4 are downloading now that I’ve rebooted – unreal]

So I guess I should get some things done around the house. I have a few posts to do as well. I’ve kind of been neglecting curvy-chick.net, I should get some things done for that too.

Ayurveda

Sunday, May 20th, 2007

PPPWhen I come across interesting things, I like to share them. I found one today, however, that’s both interesting and strange: Ayurveda NJ.

According to it’s description – Ayurveda means “Science of Life”, a mind/body science. It’s a complete system of restoring and maintaining a harmonious mind/body/spirit connection. It’s function is to balance all physical, emotional, and mental systems leading to self-healing and self realization. It teaches that human physical systems are directly connected with emotional and mental systems.

It goes on from there. To me, at first, this basically sounded like a cross between meditation and some form of Scientology. Once I got into the site, however, I found that it was a rejuvenation spa, total body wellness and skincare center. They have healing bodywork, unique massage therapies and facial therapies. They include herbal/nutritional supplements and there are even some articles and press about it’s founder, Indrani Maity.

It’s pretty easy to navigate through the site, though there are a few changes that I would personally make from a business standpoint, but I’m sure the owner is content with where it is so I’ll leave that alone. This site teaches you about everything you’d want to know about natural healing. Their goal is to empower and educate individuals. They want you to become you’re own healer and your own doctor, through practice of self-awareness and self-knowledge.

I think it’s a fairly interesting idea considering how expensive it can be to stay on top of your health. If you fully understand everything about your own body then you’d know for sure when something isn’t right without having to make a visit to your local doctor for something as small as a pimple.

Check them out, ultimaterejuvenation.com.

Fresh Start

Sunday, May 20th, 2007

After getting the blue screen of death on my laptop a few times today, I decided that it was time to completely reinstall windows and start fresh. The first format didn’t want to work but that’s the one Baby did for me. The one I did for myself seemed to process OK, so it went from there. I couldn’t find any of my disks so I was unable to get any drivers working the way they were supposed to. Baby spent a few minutes on it and now everything is up and running exactly where it’s supposed to be. I almost forgot about how fast this thing could process things. I don’t like having to reinstall windows but something told me this was bound to happen considering it’s about a week after my 1-year warranty expired. I truly believe computer companies program something into windows so it crashes about a week after warranties expire. Every computer I’ve ever owned has crashed after warranties expired. I ran one fine for 3 years with no problems, the day the warranty was up – it was gone. Or maybe I’ve just got bad luck surrounding me, I don’t know.

Either way I have a lot of programs to install so I guess I should get my ass in gear.

Feeling Better

Sunday, May 20th, 2007

Being sick for the last few days has really been driving me crazy. I wound up doing a lot of cleaning yesterday because I found myself being extremely bored, even with a fever I had no problem getting the kitchen, dining room and most of the bedroom in order. Today I think I’m going to tackle the Living Room, or at least see how far my body will allow me to go in order to do it.

It’s very warm today, almost warm enough to throw on the air conditioner but knowing that there are still other sick people in the house having it on wouldn’t be the smartest of ideas. I know that while I do have a fever and feel over heated, there’s someone else who’s always cold and can’t curl herself into a ball any more no matter how much she tried.

It rained pretty badly here last night, which is great considering my flowers could really use the moisture. I do have to head out there in a little while and make sure my hanging plants are getting some water as well. Since they’re under the awning it’s kind of hard for them to have gotten the rain last night. I guess I should head outside and get that done now, I could use a cigarette anyway.

Choose your colors wisely…

Sunday, May 20th, 2007

ades-capturing-colors.png It’s rare when I come across a webmaster resource that makes me drool in excitement. There are thousands of programs out there to help webmasters get things done a little bit easier but there are very few that do everything they say they’re going to do without any hidden programs to install with it that will eat up your hard drive. Just this morning I came across a Color Picker software. It’s like having the eye drop/color chooser from Photoshop without having to boot Photoshop. It allows you to capture colors anywhere on the screen with a single click of the mouse and the really cool thing is you can instantly place these colors into HTML, RGB, C++, Visual Basic or even Delphi color codes. There’s even a color library where you can store your colors, change your colors and convert one color to another. With a right-click of the mouse you can even access the last 10 captured colors. It makes it very easy for you if you’re designing a template that requires specific colors and you have to refer to them often. It’s safe to say that Ades, the designer of this program is really going somewhere. This program only uses 1.4mb of disk space, and it’s excellently priced at $9.90. There’s a free trial if you’re interested in testing it out before you download it but I downloaded the trial myself and I have to say – I’ll be making this purchase very soon. It makes life very easy for me, even if you aren’t a designer and just like using random colors on word documents and chat programs – this would be a valuable resource for you as well.

Try it out, you may wind up purchasing it too.

It’s unfortunate

Saturday, May 19th, 2007

Going into my vacation this weekend, there was a preexisting feeling of sadness. This past week I found out that my grandfather has been diagnosed with prostate cancer. He’s going through testing, procedures and many other things that one couldn’t imagine. It’s hard when things like this happen. I lost my grandmother to breast cancer about 12 years ago (fathers mother), my other grandmother (mothers mother) has gone through extensive surgeries on her legs, to the point that the doctor nicked a nerve and that’s a long going lawsuit fallen upon a woman who can barely walk. My mother has been through a triple bypass surgery, my father has come home with so many staples in his head from work-related accidents that it’s just unreal – even this past weekend he’d torn some shin muscle making it hard for him to walk around the casino. It’s just a whole series of events that I can’t seem to piece together.

I’ve been very sick for the last couple of days and part of me wonders if stress played a factor in this. I come home after losing money to find that Bella is hurt, I was already exhausted and depressed because of it so now it’s just a series of crap all piling up on top of each other. Tonight I hobbled myself into Wal-mart so I could buy some replacement shades for the ones Bella has damaged over the last couple of weeks. She likes sitting in the window and has proven (three times over) that she’ll do anything to get up there. I probably should take a picture of the damage she did to the rug while we were gone as well.

However, I realized today that wasn’t entirely her fault. A few weeks ago Baby seemed to be on a mission to find something and decided to cut a section of the rug to look underneath (I don’t know why, I also refused to ask). That strip happened to be right outside the bedroom door which made it easy for her to pull the rug back. Because of the she was able to easily destroy it. So right now the blame is basically on the two of them. Either way she’s no longer limping and he still won’t take any blame what-so-ever for the fact that I’m extremely ill.

I’m working on linking Thunderbird from my external hard drive, this way I can run the same email off both the desktop and the laptop. I’m sick of sitting in the office listening to Halo3 Beta gunshots and him yammering into the microphone with people he doesn’t even know…heh. I never understood the gaming world, oh well.

Off I go.

Excellent Advise

Thursday, May 17th, 2007

When I come across a valuable resource, I typically like to share. I’ve found something on fatfighterblogs.com that I think would be interesting for any dieter. Below are 20 tips for permanent weight loss.

  • Exercise 30 to 60 minutes each day. If time is limited, exercise for several brief periods throughout the day ?¢‚Ǩ‚Äù for example, three 10-minute sessions rather than one 30-minute session.
  • Eat three healthy meals during the day, including a good breakfast. Skipping meals causes increased hunger and may lead to excessive snacking.
  • Focus on fruits and vegetables. Top off your morning cereal with sliced strawberries or bananas. Stir berries or peaches in yogurt or cottage cheese. Liven up your sandwiches with vegetables, such as tomato, lettuce, onion, peppers and cucumber.
  • Weigh yourself regularly. Monitoring your weight can tell you whether your efforts are working and can help you detect small weight gains before they become even larger.
  • Don’t keep comfort foods in the house. If you tend to eat high-fat, high-calorie foods when you’re upset or depressed or bored, don’t keep them around. Availability of food is one of the strongest factors in determining how much a person eats.
  • Plan a family activity. Get the family together to go for a bike ride, play disc golf or kick the ball around in the yard.
  • Eat healthy foods first. Eat foods that are healthy and low in calories first so that when it comes time to enjoy your favorites ?¢‚Ǩ‚Äù sweets or junk food, for example ?¢‚Ǩ‚Äù you won’t be so hungry.
  • Pay attention to portions. Serve meals already dished onto plates instead of placing serving bowls on the table. Take slightly less than what you think you’ll eat. You can always have seconds, if really necessary.
  • Create opportunities to be active. Wash your car at home instead of going to the car wash. Bike or walk to the store. Participate in your kid’s activities at the playground or park.
  • Sit down together for family meals. Avoid eating in front of the television. TV viewing strongly affects how much and what people eat.
  • See what you eat. Eating directly from a container gives you no sense of how much you’re eating. Seeing food on a plate or in a bowl keeps you aware of how much you’re eating.
  • Vary your activities. Regularly change your activity routine to avoid exercise burnout. Walk a couple of days, swim another and go for a bike ride on the weekend. Seek out new activities ?¢‚Ǩ‚Äù karate, ballroom dancing, cross-country skiing, tennis or Pilates.
  • De-stress your day. Stress can cause you to eat more. Develop strategies that can help you relax when you find yourself becoming stressed. Exercise, deep breathing, muscle relaxation techniques and even a good laugh can ease stress.
  • Eat at home. People eat more food in restaurants than at home. Limit how often you eat at restaurants. If you do eat out, decide what and how much you’re going to eat before you start and have the rest boxed to go.
  • Plan healthy snacks. The best snacks include fruits, vegetables, whole grains and low-fat dairy products. Fruit smoothies, sliced fresh fruit and yogurt, whole-grain crackers, and carrot and celery sticks with peanut butter are all good choices.
  • Start your day with a high-fiber breakfast cereal, such as bran flakes, shredded wheat or oatmeal. Opt for cereals with “bran” or “fiber” in the name. Or add a few tablespoons of unprocessed wheat bran to your favorite cereal.
  • Walk for 10 minutes over your lunch hour or get up a few minutes earlier in the morning and go for a short walk.
  • Plan a week’s worth of meals at a time. Make a detailed grocery list to eliminate last-minute trips to the grocery store and impulse buys.
  • Look for a distraction when you’re fighting a craving. Call a friend, put on music and dance or exercise, clean the house, pull weeds in your garden, or run an errand. When your mind is occupied with something else, the cravings quickly go away.
  • Reward yourself. Losing weight and keeping the pounds off is a major accomplishment. Celebrate your success with nonfood rewards, such as new clothes or an outing with friends.

Sick = SUCKS

Thursday, May 17th, 2007

I knew that I jinxed myself today when I decided to blow my nose. Typically, when I feel a head cold coming on, I know that once I blow my nose it just won’t stop. Now I can’t even breath out of my nose and it’s bothering the crap out of me. Baby is convinced that he isn’t the reason I got sick. Meanwhile he was sick last week and since our bed is as small as it is, wound up breathing on me for 8+ hours a night, so yes – I blame him. He’s busy playing some video game, I don’t even know if he got any work done today, honestly. I don’t care how important it is to play the Beta version of a game but I will tell you this, he can be ass deep in bullets but he’s going to the store to get me some tissues and decongestant – no question about it.

I’m not quite sure if I have a fever or not but I do know that if I stand up I wind up having to sit back down because I’m too dizzy. I also know that with the time spent with Kay this weekend, she’s also under the weather. The only one who had contact with both of us was HIM…maybe he’ll learn to fess up to it.

I just hope I don’t give Bella a cold, she’s having enough trouble as is at the moment. She can sleep in the living room with him tonight. I don’t want either one of them near me, for completely different reasons of course but at least I get to sleep alone. I don’t want her sick and I don’t want him on me cause we’ll just keep bouncing the cold back and forth until it eventually kills us both.

I need NyQuil :grr: