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Spender or Saver?

Thursday, March 15th, 2007

When I got my first bank account at 16, I was lucky enough to have my father as my financial advisor. Following his lead, I was able to build and maintain a solid savings account that was in the $10,000 range, untouched. When I turned 18 I treated myself to a computer and other things that I felt I deserved in my two years of savings. Little did I know, this would help me to keep and maintain an account for the rest of my life.

The cool thing about my dad is I can go to him for basically anything, within reason of course. If my account ever dipped into the low hundreds, I know that I can easily speak to him openly on the topic of debt advice, loans, credit cards and just random questions in regards to my current accounts without him flipping out about it. I also know that based on his experience he’s a good source to go to for mortgages and even home insurance.

I was luck enough to have him around when the 100+ “You’ve been pre-approved” notices showed up for credit cards over the last 6 years. I think every credit card company available to my age/paycheck range had me in their database. I was smart enough not to take any of them. To this day, I still don’t have a major credit card other than the Master card logo that’s attached to my ATM card. I’ve lived on the theory that you can’t spend what you don’t have. I’ve heard the horror stories about young adults almost having to claim bankruptcy because their debts have just kept building up to uncontrollable levels. I know that I will make it a point to never be like that.

Even if I had $20,000 sitting in the bank, I don’t think I’d ever get myself a credit card. What’s the point? You can buy things as you need them with the money you have or you can pay the unreasonably high 20% interest rates for every dollar you spend. A friend of mine bought a new TV for like $1,000 on their credit card, now it’s costing them $1,200. She had the money in bank to buy it in one shot, why she chose the credit card route is beyond me. Spending what you don’t have is never going to be a smart idea, no matter how financially advanced you are.

Stick to what you have, 90% of purchases made throughout the day are on credit. Buy now…pay later. This is what young teens think when they get their first card. They never realize how much everything builds up over time. It’s more effort than it’s worth, something to think about the next time you go to pay for an item you don’t really need…with money you don’t really have.

Slow and…STUDY??

Thursday, March 15th, 2007

I’m slowly working on redoing acidgloss.net completely. I have a new business venture coming up that will help me to get some more clients. I’m working closely with the boyfriend on this one, I’d rather not go into full detail on that one. It’s time that I got my ass in gear to get the domain up to where I’ve always wanted it to be. For almost two years now I’ve been saying that I’ll offer free, paid and custom web templates and so far all I’ve done is the custom templates. I’m sure I could do a lot better if I have something to offer up for visitors without them having to spend an arm and a leg. The only way I’m going to get any money together for school is to buckle down and get moving.

This is why you’ve seen me posting more often. I’m slowly working on getting the $875 I need for the first semester in Penn Foster. When I’ve completely settled in down here I’m going to apply for a job at one of the local stores. If I really wanted to work my ass off I could start bombarding the outlet stores in Rehoboth with applications. I think there’s like 150+ outlet stores on Route 1 alone, I’ll have to verify that one with Sean though, considering he knows the area better than I do…he’s lived in Rehoboth for over a year. I also know that Ashley lives somewhere in/around Delmarva, she recommended that I hit up Rehoboth for some shopping. Considering I know that the town is seasonal, I’m damn sure that the summer is going to be pretty busy…good money to be made.

I figure if I can go back to making a solid $350 a week again, I’ll be good on enrolling as soon as possible. I’ll also be able to get some things done around the house, as far as important purchases go. Baby and I really need a new bed, I’m very close to turning the floor into my perminant bed considering how horrible the current one is being to my back. He’s been busy working today, after we got our dinner he went back to his office and has been working ever since. It’s getting close to 2 am and for some reason I’m actually extremely tired…I guess it’s time to get myself ready for bed. It sucks going to sleep at different times but he works such strange hours that there really is nothing I can do about it.

It’s extremely warm in the house at the moment, I think I’m going to hang out in the bedroom where the window is open as wide as it can go and the fan is cranking on it’s highest setting. I hope theirs something interesting on TV that’ll knock me out. I’ve been unable to really fall asleep unless I’m watching TV first. This is a habit that I’m going to have to kick.

Prescriptions that kill?

Thursday, March 15th, 2007

Ortho Evra - Personal Injury LawyerAnyone who is sexually active should really consider proper forms of protection against STD’s, Pregnancy and other potentially life threatening issues associated with having sex. The problem with a lot of the prescriptions out there are the life threatening side effects to products that aren’t tested properly before they are openly available to the public. One product that comes to mind is the birth control patch Ortho Evra.

Millions of women have embraced the Ortho Evra birth control patch with great enthusiasm because it fits into their active lifestyles. In fact, 95% of women are satisfied with ORTHO EVRA as a discreet form of birth control. Women find Ortho Evra convenient and easy to use. In a clinical study, women who used the Patch were more likely to use it consistently and properly than women who took birth control pills.

Unfortunately with every great product, there is always a downside. There are quite a few life threatening side effects to using Ortho Evra. A few law firms have noticed the rise in cases based on these side effects, adding entire sections to their practice just for medicinal law. One that comes to mind is a Seattle Personal Injury Lawfirm. Based on their weblog, you can read through the three entries related to this product.

A direct quote from their website:

Lawsuits have been filed and settled alleging the manufacturer of Ortho Evra Birth Control Patch knowingly concealed risks of serious injuries and death while aggressively marketing the patch to young women. The Ortho Evra birth control patch has been shown to cause up to 11 times the serious injuries as the pill. The patch is linked to blood clots, strokes, heart attacks, pulmonary embolism, death, and other serious injuries.

If this doesn’t make you think twice about taking a new product, I don’t know what will. Unless you have an allergy to latex, there is no real side effect to using condoms (other than some minor chaffing) the upside is you can’t possibly get the same side effects as you can by using this patch. I’ve never heard of a women forming a blood clot or having a stroke from using Trojans…something to think about the next time you go to stick the patch on your body.

Romance isn’t dead…

Wednesday, March 14th, 2007

Baby and I have been spending a lot of time at the beach. While I’m not a huge fan of sand, I’ve found peace in listening to the waves roll in and smack against the shore. I never spent a lot of time at the beach growing up. My mother never really cared to go and by the time my father got out of work, there wasn’t really any sunlight left to enjoy it. Because of this…it’s been a while since I’ve really sat down on the beach and took it all in. I know that I could always just go to the beach by my house and pop-a-squat on the sand but the problem with living on the North Shore of Long Island, you’re dealing with an over polluted Long Island Sound. From where I’m living now…I have the entire Atlantic Ocean and it only takes me not even five minutes to get to. I can’t believe that there are people who take that for granted.

While things between Baby and I are going really well…for the last few weeks we’ve been in kind of a rough spot. Between Joe’s anniversary, the withdrawal of being out of New York for the last two and a half months, then everything else that he’s going through and little things here and there…it’s just been difficult for us to really sit down and talk to each other. With how secluded we were this morning, we were able to really just sit back and talk through everything that was getting to us. We just enjoyed each others company more than we have in a while. I think it’s honestly going to do a bit of good for our relationship.

We got to the beach around 3:30AM and didn’t leave until about 8:00AM. Part of me felt guilty for leaving Bella home by herself for those four and a half hours but it was something that we needed to do. There was no moon in the sky last night, it didn’t show up until around 5:00-5:30 and it didn’t even rise in the sky ( we don’t think ) it kind of just showed up in mid-air, it could have been behind clouds…who knows. But since it wasn’t bright enough to really be interesting, we waited on the sun and continued to sit on the benches and talk to each other between our walks on the beach. We headed into 7-11 to pick up some coffee so we could keep ourselves awake. On the way home from the beach we stopped and had breakfast. We planned on spending the entire day together without sleep so we could just crash tonight but unfortunately it didn’t work out that way. I wound up falling asleep and he followed. After we woke up we went back to the beach for a little while and picked up some pizza on the way home. All in all it was a nice day for us. Forget nice…it was gorgeous. It was like 72?Ǭ?F(22?Ǭ?C), bright and sunny day. While I love the cold…I don’t think today could have possibly gone any better.

It’s going to be an interesting weekend. Baby and I are heading to Lewes, DE with his mother to take the Cape May Ferry up to New Jersey for the day. She’s doing some car shopping and managed to find the one she wants in like Brick, NJ or something like that. I hope the water is warm enough where we get to see Dolphins or something floating around in the water. Baby was telling me about them, I hope I don’t have to wait until this summer to see all of that. I’m going to need to make a quick stop at CVS or something this week, I’m not sure how I’m going to do on the boat so I’ll have to pick up some stuff for a potential “just in case” scenario. It never hurt to be prepared…you know?

Right now, Lost is on TV so I guess I’ll go join Baby and watch some TV. Maybe I’ll get to go to the beach again tomorrow, there’s supposed to be a pretty strong storm coming this way for Thursday, maybe there’s going to be some big waves to watch. Yay for umbrellas…heh.

Getting Warmer!

Tuesday, March 13th, 2007

Baby and I went to the beach today and watched the waves. While it was rather chilly, we did still manage to hang out there for long enough to enjoy everything going on. On the way back to the car we were walking a long the board walk and found ourselves in front of a summer-sports kind of store. This store was over run with skate gear, surf gear, and just vintage looking clothing that everyone seems to be wearing these days. While he looked at the wave boards I found myself heading more towards the reef flip flops.

I’m not a fan of flip-flops but I am getting used to them. I’ve worn a few pairs in the past that really were more uncomfortable than they were worth. A friend of mine, last summer, told me about Reef and how they would most likely be the last pair I ever own. She wasn’t the most reliable of sources considering she was twiddling her hair around her finger but I took her advice on it anyway. She was right, and I hate to admit that, but Reef are seriously the best pair of flip-flops I have ever owned.

Anyone who wears flip-flops knows that buying them out of the $1 bin at Wal-Mart is the biggest mistake you’re ever going to make. Unfortunately I didn’t have anyone to inform me about this. Every pair I’ve ever owned has come out of the cheap bin which is why up until this past summer, I refused to wear flip flops for the extreme discomfort that my $1-$3 pair of shoes gave me. Thanks to Tammy having something to say about my choices, I’ve found myself looking for sites on line that offer Reef for affordable prices.

The store I was in tonight had a HUGE collection of them but the lowest price I found was in the $50 range. Now, I know people spend a lot of money on shoes but I think $50 on a shoe that only protects the bottom of your foot just isn’t worth it. I did some searching around the ‘net and was lucky enough to come across active-sandals.com. They have a HUGE selection of reef flip flops in the $20-$40 range, this obviously makes me happy. They also offer a large selection of other brands like Chaco, Birkenstock, Teva and Cobian. Fortunately, I’m a simple girl so I think I’m just going to order these sandals before the weather down here gets unbearably warm.

God…I can’t wait for summer. There’s going to be so much to do and so much sun to do it in.

The Riches

Monday, March 12th, 2007

I just finished watching The Riches on FX and I have to say that it’s going to be one of my new favorite shows. A quick summary would basically be the following:

For Wayne and Dahlia Malloy, the road is home. As a family of travelers, life is all about the money – other peoples money – and steering clear of the law. They’ve raised their three children Cael, Didi and Sam in their old, beat up RV, teaching them the tricks of scamming trade, and to always take pride in conning greedy buffers (the traveler term for ordinary, law-abiding folk). But one blind curve in the road and a swerve of the RV later, the Malloy family finds themselves faced with the possibility of becoming buffers. Doug and Cherien Rich are now dead, driven off the road by the swerving Malloy RV. Dahlia feels guilt over the tragic accident. Wayne senses a golden opportunity.

For anyone who didn’t get to watch the show tonight, I strongly suggest you tune into FX on Saturday at 10 EST so you can see what you’re missing.

The hype has calmed though, tomorrow night is my usual Tuesday@10 line-up and I’ll be watching Dirt. I can’t wait until The Shield comes back. That’s just one step into Rescue Me and of course Nip/Tuck coming back on TV.

I’m an FX junkie!

Email Marketing Strategies

Monday, March 12th, 2007

Today I came across a company that specializes in email marketing for your blog. This site enables you to send daily, weekly or even a monthly summary of your latest blog posts right to your subscribers inbox. The really cool thing…it’s free.

Sure, there are wordpress plug ins out there that send an email out to everyone when you’ve justed posted an entry but with this system you have a little bit more control over what entries you want and don’t want to send out to visitors. I think it’s pretty nifty, so much so that I’ve added it to my sidebar. So if you’re at all interested in signing up for the krissy.nu mailing list…go for it.

I think this company – zookoda.com – will be pretty successful…honestly. They’ve taken a solid idea to help millions of people gain and keep their hits for just posting blogs. I know that if the blog is interesting enough…people will come back on their own but some people don’t have the time to surf a blog every single day (especially for people whom post regularly). It’s nice to be able to access your favorite blog without even having to load the page. I wish them a load of success with their site.

Email Marketing

Date Night!

Monday, March 12th, 2007

Since baby is so busy working during the week, we have one night a week where we go out to dinner and just spend time together outside of the house. It keeps us pretty close so that we’re not pulling away from eachother in these difficult couple of weeks (for me mainly).

Last night we took a drive to Ocean City, MD and had some dinner then headed down to the boardwalk to do some walking around. We walked through Playland but they were in the process of closing so we didn’t do much. We hit up the pier but couldn’t get all the way down considering it’s blocked off seasonally. So we went up to another beach by the house and watched the waves for a while. I’m waiting on him to finish up with work so we can head back down there for the sunset. Unfortunately I won’t see much as far as colors go over the ocean but if we get towards the bay than it’ll be absolutely gorgeous. I think I’d prefer the beach though…I really just like looking at the waves.

It wasn’t that warm last night, unfortunately. But this isn’t anything to be too worried about. It’s supposed to be about 70 tomorrow and then 75 the following day. I only have one pair of shorts down here with me so I think I’m going to head over to Kmart and pick up another pair…no way in hell I’m going in pants for the next two days. I’m going to make it a point to be on the beach for the next few days…maybe even in the back yard to work on a little bit of a tan too…couldn’t hurt…right?

It’s time to go bug him, with how it looks outside all I can say is he isn’t working fast enough. Time to turn around…heh.

Furniture Shopping

Monday, March 12th, 2007

Since I’m in the process of moving in, Baby and I have been thinking about and window shopping for furniture to suit our needs. We’ve been looking at beds, dressers, and of course appliances because we’re actively working on getting a bigger TV and some monitors for the office. For me, the bedroom is the most important and since I’m anal retentive about things matching, I’d prefer to look into bedroom sets. Things HAVE to match for me, or I go nuts. If I’m going to spend the money to remodel something – it’s going to match.

The room is this blue grey color with a cream colored rug, now this isn’t exactly my main color choice but he doesn’t want to change it so I’m going to have to improvise. The pallet I picked out was a grey, black, white, punches of red…it would all match up if done right. The red is really like…accents. A few throw pillows and stuff like that, so hopefully that all works out the way it’s supposed to. It’s the financials that need to be worked out first.

There is a plus though, compared to the shopping we’ve been doing on foot, there’s quite a bit of great priced furniture online. While I’m unsure if the final purchase will be made online, I do know that it’s nice to be able to find a website or two where you can basically look at everything possible to build your room around it.

So much for paying a designer – eh?

It’s been a year…

Thursday, March 8th, 2007

Hearts in Snow Today was the one year anniversary of Joe’s passing. While today wasn’t easy on me, it wasn’t overly difficult either. Joe has his ways of letting me know he’s still around. I strongly believe that the 5″ of snowfall that fell in Delmarva today was his doing. What I wasn’t expecting to see was later on in the evening when I went outside to have a cig.

I’d heard a plow go by about a half hour before to begin clearing up the roads (and they did a crap-ass job by the way). During the course of the day, since anything over an inch of snowfall around here is a “State of Emergency”, there weren’t many cars on the road after work let out. People were smart and basically went home and stayed there. After walking out the door, I looked at the street and saw a strange sign made in the middle of the road. Believe it or not, these were made with tires. I don’t believe they were truck tires, more like car ones (they were kind of thin) but close inspection (slippers are SOAKED because of it) I looked at the sign up close and saw it was definitely done by a tire.

Hearts…in the middle of the road. I’m unsure why they’re there, or even how they really got there. Part of me wants to believe that in some way shape or form Joe did it. This may sound crazy, I honestly wouldn’t doubt that it sounds crazy to someone outside of my daily life but I do believe he’s floating around me and a breeze or the random whiff of “Curve: For Men” out of no where are my tell-tale signs of knowing he’s around. I do believe in ghosts, there’s no doubt about that. I’m happy he’s my ghost. I could be crazy, I may have officially flipped my lid – trust me…it was bound to happen at some point. I just know that there’s no possible way that these were made by hand, there are no foot prints to support a hand-made snow pattern in the road that wasn’t there for the ENTIRE DAY OF SNOWFALL.

In other news, I need clients. Business is extremely slow and something tells me that I’m going to have to bring Bella to the vet sooner than expected. The change in altitude, and the wrong shampoo has caused her to be kind of itchy lately. With this itching comes excessive scratching and she managed to cut her head open and keeps continuing to scratch the same area to the point that the top of her head is no longer blonde, it’s pink. Her scalp is pink and the blood this sore has spurted out onto her little head has dyed her head. She’s also got some strange bumps on her back and I’m unsure where they came from. They feel kind of like…pimples. She’s always had a bump on her stomach, so I never really thought twice about it. Now that she’s got them all over, I’m beyond concerned about it. There’s a vet clinic down here that I can take her to but I seriously can’t afford anything.

This is also putting a damper on my moving plans. I’m finally going back to New York next week (I think?), I hope it’s to just cash a few checks and move within a few days. Sources (well…my gut feeling mainly) is telling me that it will take longer than I’d hoped. Either way there’s a lot of shit to be done and if things don’t begin to pick up soon then I guess I’ll be screwed. I haven’t seen my house in like two months. I’m sure Bella misses my father, she may even miss my sister – who knows. I just know it’s going to be an interesting couple of weeks.

I’ve been surfing careerbuilder.com and monster.com (actively) for jobs in the area so hopefully I’ll find something soon. I have rent and other shit to think about and the money being made from the web stuff won’t cut it anymore. I can live comfortably under my father’s roof because I’m only going half with things. This is full-throttle now, so I’m going to need more income and unfortunately the Internet just won’t be enough for me. Baby is doing really well with his stuff, but I refuse to live off his income. I guess it’s just the way I was raised.

In any event, it’s about 1am and I’m exhausted. I spent most of Monday being sick as a dog so now I’m slowly getting over whatever hit me this past weekend. My nose isn’t runny but I’ve been very dizzy and extremely nauseous so I have no idea what happened. Now I’m basically hacking up a phlegmy lung so I can’t wait until this shit is out of my system.

Night all.

Happy March!

Sunday, March 4th, 2007

I haven’t done anything in a ‘timely manor’ for the last couple of days so putting up the March theme on the 4th just doesn’t seem like such a big deal to me. I’ve been busy doing other things.

My foot is healing, but as a trade off I still can’t put it flat on the floor and I’m getting frequent migraines with my period (never happened before), so I’m basically falling apart.

I’m dreading going back to NY, I told my father I’d be home next weekend. I seriously don’t want to go back at all but if I’m going to move down here (completely) I’m going to have to go home to pick up my shit anyway. I just don’t want to be up there for more than a week, honestly. I’m done with the state and about 90% of the people in it. The important ones that are worthy of my keeping in touch with, family, close friends, etc obviously aren’t of much concern. There’s just a lot of bad memories and shitty people in my life that I’d like gone, so – this is my step in doing that.

According to my father, my diploma showed up on Tuesday so I’m officially done with Stratford and can now continue to move forward with other studies. I’m happy about it, and I guess that’s all that matters.

I’m still waiting on a few clients to pay me, I love how people disapear when the bill has been sent. Gotta love business these days.

Baby surprised me last night. We went to Wal-Mart to buy a BBQ because it’s getting warmer and anyone living in a beach community would know the importance of a gas grill. After we picked up a heafty grill and threw it into the cart, he decided to take his usual detour in the electronics department. He originally was looking for a game I saw on G4 the other day called “Bullet Witch”, It’s an XBox360 game and while I’m not a gamer, I’m getting used to the controller playing Hexic (for a few hours a day lately) so he was going to buy it for me (complete surprise!). They didn’t have it though, which is fine because I wasn’t dead set on getting it, I figured I’d buy it for myself a few weeks down the road. He then looked at the DS games and said “Pick One”, my eye went straight to Super Mario Brothers, but it was like $35 so I said, “Nope”. I then saw “Big Brain Academy” for $19, obviously this is the one I chose. I didn’t expect him to buy it for me, let alone BOTH of them. So my DS now has four games. I owe him big, just not sure how to go about it.

In any event, I have to finish email checks and send out some more bills.

I don’t know when I’ll be around again. The 7th is coming up pretty quickly and I’ve been kind of out of it. This year has gone by so fast. My entire life has literally done a complete 180?Ǭ? and I think my body is finally catching up to it so things have been really…blah…lately, if you know what I mean.

Fixed

Monday, February 26th, 2007

Comments are fixed, I don’t have to reinstall like I thought I was…thank god.

Problems?

Monday, February 26th, 2007

For some reason, literally overnight, my comments table in the database is majorly fucked up. I’m in the process of working on this so hopefully things will be back to normal sometime in the next 24-48 hours. If I happen to have to reinstall WordPress I’ve already backed up the database. I could seriously care less about the comments being saved. The most important thing to me is the entries, considering everything in the last year about Joe is really important to me.

I’m sure I’ll have an update sooner or later.

Throbbing Pain

Thursday, February 15th, 2007

Sprained Ankle I’m not really that big on pictures but there are just some times when you have to give some kind of visual proof to what you’re about to say. This is my left ankle, this is what happens when you’re going down stairs and there’s uneven ground. It’s swollen to a little bit more than double the size and as you can tell, it’s a pretty shade of purple. I’m in an awful lot of pain and I’m surprised by this considering I normally have a high pain tolerance. Baby thinks that it’s gone past a bruise and is like ‘internal bleeding’…riiiight. This isn’t the first time I’ve done some major damage to my ankle though. I’m basically a sprained ankle junkie, freaky huh? I’ve broken both ankles, I’ve fallen down stairs (see a pattern here?) landing feet first and spraining both ankles at once. You can imagine my surprise when I landed on Tuesday and it was only the one ankle that was damaged. I felt it pop when I went down but figured I could walk it off. I can volunteerily crack both ankles by just twisting my foot a little so it didn’t phase me much.

A few hours later I noticed that it was getting hard for me to move around. At this point I’d been on the couch for a little while watching television so since I wasn’t standing up much, it didn’t phase me that my foot was still sore. I figured this was a given considering I’d fallen only a few hours prior. Once my foot touched the floor and flattened out I felt a shooting pain go clean up my leg…the likes of which I’ve never felt before. This scared me but I didn’t think much about it considering I’ve hurt myself before and have come through with flying colors. The next day before I went into the shower I looked at my foot and noticed it was a heavy shade of purple. Since then, I’ve been nursing and medicating the pain and hopefully my foot will go back to normal sometime over the course of the next couple of days.

Valentine’s Day
Baby and I went to Applebee’s last night and enjoyed ourselves at dinner. We watched a movie before we went to bed and I don’t know about him but I woke up feeling very refreshed. He got me a HUGE teddy bear and a box of chocolate. On Wednesday morning before we went to sleep (We don’t usually knock out until about 5:30AM) he put the bear in the bed with the candy and threw a blanket over it for me to find. I was pretty surprised, he was very sweet about it.

Closing time…
In any event, I think I’m going to head off for the night. My back is starting to bother me from sitting here too long. I think I’m going to hobble myself outside and have a cig.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Wednesday, February 14th, 2007

I told myself, and the boyfriend, that I’d be in bed by 4am so I needed to get my ass in gear on finalizing some things with a client. It’s now almost 5am and I’m still awake…typical.

Be My Valentine!
It’s Valentine’s Day and already I’ve been rather productive. Baby and I are basically going to spend the entire day together. I even conned him into setting up his laptop in the dining room so we can work together before we go out to dinner tonight. Originally we were going to head to Salisbury and go to The Olive Garden but unfortunately with the rain/snow in the area it’s easier for us to just stay south. So…we’re going to dinner at Applebee’s…it’s my new addiction. I’m a sucker for the Three Cheese Chicken Penne Pasta. He’s a sucker for their Buffalo Wings so everyone’s happy at dinner.

Sluggish
I’ve been meaning to update but it’s been a pretty ‘eh’ week for me. I spent the 7th in a daze because it’s been 11-months since Joe died and it hit me pretty hard. Who knows how I’m going to be on March 7th because that’s the one year marking of a very crazy year.

Relocating
Baby and I have discussed everything and I’m officially going to be moving out of New York once finances allow. I’m nervous about it because New York is all I’ve ever known but I believe this change in my life is going to be the best thing for me. I have to step out of my comfort zone and get into this ‘real world’ everyone seems to boast about. We’ve already got big plans as far as how the bedroom and office are going to look. It requires a bit of money in order to get everything where it needs to be. We’re two big people so there’s no way in hell we’re going to be sharing a full-sized bed anymore. It’s time to upgrade, and by upgrade I mean KING.

We went to a few stores this past week and we laid down in a Seely Posturepedic and I instantly fell in love. I know they’re a little bit pricey but I’m confident that we’ll have the money so there shouldn’t be anything to worry about there. It was extremely comfortable, my back felt GREAT in it, I can’t wait to buy one. It’s also nice to not be on top of eachother either, we can just roll to our designated corners and stay clear away from eachother. It’s not that I don’t want to cuddle up with baby it’s the fact that we both kick and steal blankets so it’ll be harder to hurt eachother when we’re on (basically) opposite ends of the room…you know? It should work out fine.

Ouchies!
In other news, I sprained my ankle. The front door has been acting kind of nutty (not closing properly) and I decided to just go out the side of the house and sit on the stairs while having my cigarette yesterday afternoon. I went down the stairs and didn’t realize that the grass was higher than it looked. I stepped in a dip and now my ankle is beyond messed up. It wasn’t a happy day for me…that’s all I have to say. I’m having trouble getting around and my new nickname, instead of “Baby” now seems to be “Limpy”. Not fun…not fun at all.

And I’m Spent!
I think I’m going to head to bed now. Baby’s mom just woke up for work and she’s looking at me like “Don’t you sleep?” She’s a little grouchy though, hasn’t had her coffee yet. After a cup or two she’ll be her usual goof-tastic self. So I’m going to go sneak in on Baby now and then maybe get some shut-eye so I can get some work done in a few hours and be rested for my uber-sweet day with Baby.

Happy V-Day Everyone!

Full Speed Ahead

Monday, February 5th, 2007

I probably should have posted on the 1st when the template went up but I honestly just wasn’t in the mood. It’s been a pretty busy couple of weeks. The boyfriend and I painted the kitchen as well as his bathroom, eventually we’ll be working on his moms bathroom as well. We’re currently talking about my officially moving in with him so I’m sure I’ll have an update on that sometime in the near future. It requires me to move away from everything I’ve ever known and that’s a big step for me but I also know that I’m moving to a place where I feel the most comfortable. Although I will always be a New Yorker at heart, Long Island just isn’t the place for me to be anymore.

Over the course of the next couple of days I’m going to be working on getting some clients knocked out, as well as picking some of them up. I figure I need around $1,000 in order to move so I’m going to have to get my ass in gear on things. I’ll be getting a job down here after I’ve gotten some of my things here. I figure the only important items to come with me are my TV, computer, Bella and my clothes. The rest are things that I truly don’t need so I’ll be home for a few weeks doing some cleaning out. It’s my goal to pack three boxes (total). If I load up on space bags I’m sure that will be completely possible.

Love
I believe for Valentines Day the boyfriend and I are going to be in Ocean City, MD. There isn’t much to do down there in the winter but we also know exactly how to go about having heaps of fun without spending a lot of money. We’ll most likely be going to an arcade, then dinner, and then probably a walk on the beach because the way the bay and the ocean meet up is nothing short of gorgeous in the moon light.

Pain
My abscess has come back. I wasn’t expecting this to happen considering I’ve had a root canal done on the tooth but I guess I can’t win ’em all. I do have antibiotics and pain killers so I’ll hopefully be able to fix this without a hospital visit this time. My back has really been acting up pretty bad lately, I’m convinced that the bed I’ve been sleeping on is out to kill me. I just think all of my nerves are out of wack because of the abscess. Someone told me that your mouth acting up can effect like every part of your body. Considering an abscess is a clear-cut sign of an infection, I think I’ve got that floating around. I’m also on my period so I’m feeling like crap on all ends of me, it sucks.

Work
I’m going to have to update my portfolio again (image wise) because I really need to get my recent work in there. The screen shots listed on acidgloss.net now are so out-of-date it’s unreal. Maybe if I update those I’ll have some more clients coming in. I need to get some money together for advertising too, I used to just depend on word-of-mouth but at this point that just isn’t enough anymore. If things don’t pick up I’ll cut back my hours and then pick up on a full-time job out of the house and just leave the internet stuff to part-time. It would make life a little easier, honestly. I get nice sized paychecks here and there for design work, don’t get me wrong. But I’m doing small $500 template work here and there. I’d rather just be making $500 a week. I’ve got to surf around monster.com and see if there are any secretarial jobs around here. There’s so many real estate companies here I’m sure there’s someone hiring somewhere, you know?

Lights Out!
In any event, it’s a little after 6am and I’m exhausted. The penicillin is kicking in and making me very, very sleepy. The hydrocodone doesn’t help much either…heh.

PS:
Arwen – I did get your email, I’ll respond to you as soon as I can. I promise.